i say the dumbest shit and y'all just agree. whores

I got very loudly deadnamed and misgendered multiple times at the doctors office today. This new receptionist ignored the preferred name on my profile to deadname and misgender me loudly, louder than she talked about anyone else in the waiting room. My birth certificate says "F" nex to sex, my medical documentation reflects this, and I was still deadnamed and misgendered.

And the saving grace was a woman and her child. I wear cat-ears and the child too young to speak loved them, and kept pointing and looking at me. I'm assuming her mother kept saying "yeah, she's wearing cat-ears", "yeah, that woman has cute cat-ears", and the like. Her child was enamoured with them, and that woman didn't misgender me once. And each time my very obviously masculine deadname name came up, she looked upset at the receptionist, but not once did she give me a bad look.

It doesn't have to be much. You don't need to be a knight in shining armour, or in someones face. Simply a quiet refusal to play along with someone elses bullshit is enough. It was enough to turn a trying and tiring moment into something that put a smile on my face and joy back into my life. It wasn't a lot but it mattered to me.

they should invent a waking up that doesn't make you feel like shit

“that’s ok i understand!!!!” but it actually made me sick to my stomach

if image files could get pregnant that’d be jpreg

WOW I SURE LOVE MY DASHBOARD BEING COVERED UP WHENEVER I GO TO CHECK MY NOTES!!!!!!!! IF ONLY THERE WAS A BIG EMPTY SPACE FOR IT TO BE ON!!!!!!!!

The illusion of choice and all that

@staff this is truly a basis for me to never open tumblr desktop again so if that was you guy's aim congrats, you nailed it!!!! Now if you wanted to keep "what makes Tumblr unique" you have never failed better

In case you were wondering what the trees looked like before, I did some Google Street view investigating:

Currently:

5 Months Ago:

11 months ago:

2 Years ago, and the most “pruned” previous pic of them I’ve found them. . . You can, ofc, barely see the difference between this and the carnage of the first picture. . . See guys! It’s just a usual annual prune. ;3 [Intense Sarcasm]

its absurd that trio is four letters long and not three

man the site that used to be full of people horny for the onceler now getting really hyped about tree law is some serious poetic irony

Have to say, House MD is the only show that really does live up to the hype on tumblr.

Dr Medical Malpractice really does walk around committing the most insane crimes on the daily.

The show oscillates between radically protective of vulnerable people, and the most mean spirited takes possible in the name of edginess.

House and Wilson really do have the wildest little fucked up relationship you’ve ever seen.

It’s like the opposite of the Yo, Mr White meme, where’s every joke post is just a canonical scene from this damn show.

you finally confess your attraction to the hot priest and he's like "oh darling, I thought you'd never ask" and proceeds to bite your neck and turn you into another catholic priest